Up until now and here, the first date hookup was always under the scrutiny of false moralists. As such, it was always surrounded by controversy. The result of all that condemnation and mystification is insecurity.
Both men and women feel insecure and less confident in that one area of the life that is among the top 5 essentials of our existence.
First Date Hookup is not a taboo anymore. At least not here at Great Sex Dating!
According to one of the older articles in Cosmo, “In this day and age, more people recognize sex as an important component of a successful relationship, not something to be ashamed of. For those people, it’s important to establish sexual compatibility early on, and having sex on the first date may be the right move for them.”
This is coming from Justin Lehmiller, Ph.D., a social psychologist at Harvard who studies relationships and sexuality.
But we don’t need a renowned expert to realize how somebody was yanking our chains for all this time and for no good reason. Because from the dawn of the species, men and women were hooking up for one purpose only – to have sex.
However, due to the long-time practice of false moralization coming from the people whose dark secrets, once they go public leave people speechless (just recall the whole Ashley Madison drama and some really unexpected faces!), first date hookup became the easy case for the public condemnation.
For what? Just so some old prick who’s paying for fetish sex would prevent his spouse or his daughter to run into him in the wrong place and at the wrong time?
That’s right. The whole “don’t-have-sex-on-the-first-date” dogma came to life as a blatant attempt to hide the true lifestyle and nasty sexual pleasures of older men who were publicly perceived as pillars of their communities and thus could influence the public opinion and behavior.
Honestly, we got sick and tired of all that false moralization and enforcement of some lame, illogical “rules of conduct” that make no sense from the perspective of us as a species and our core nature.
First Date Hookup is the name of the game here. Plain and Simple!
At Great Sex Dating, we removed the long, exhausting and, in most of the cases, entirely futile road to establishing the good foundations for the future relationship by assessing the mutual compatibility in bed via some delusional platonic methods. In other words, we simply skipped it and got to the point of the entire dating game.
As the good doctor Lehmiller said, that should be the first thing on our minds and as such, the very first thing we should examine.
Which basically returns the very simple premise: first date hookup should come down to the simple question you should ask yourself when deciding if you want to have sex and that should be “Do I want to have sex?” Period.
Ergo, The Global Response – GREAT SEX DATING!
The place, or even better, the adult dating community of the like-minded men and women who are sick and tired of all that game-playing so common for traditional dating model.
In our minds, things cannot be simpler. We date because we are anticipating sex. Otherwise, women wouldn’t be spending two hours shopping and two hours shaving and dressing up just to go out on a dinner. Men wouldn’t be borrowing money and practicing their looks, moves, and lines in front of the mirror hours before the actual hookup time.