Our sex experts and an adult industry professional, Charlie Greene, put together a list of the 3 must-have sex toys of every bedroom with the easy how-to.
Getting used to sex toys in your sex life is important for anyone wanting to keep things fun and interesting in the bedroom—especially if you’ve never tried using them before. That’s why we’ve compiled a list of 3 sex toys you need to start using… like today.
Vibrating Cock Ring
Alright, boys, this isn’t as bad as it sounds – but it can definitely send your woman into orgasmic bliss if you know how to use it right.
Cock rings are sex toys that you slide over your shaft and rest at the base. Generally speaking, there are a few different vibration speeds and pulses – so you’ll be able to try them out as you go along.
After having some fun with foreplay; put the ring over your shaft and turn it on. Slowly enter her until the ring is pressed against her clit. Instead of pulling back out, rotate your hips slightly making gentle circles. If she isn’t feeling the full impact of the vibration, lay on your back and pull her on to you. She’ll have more control of the sensations and the speed of riding your cock.
Bullet or Pocket Vibrator
The idea with these vibrators is NOT internal stimulation but an external assistance to your fun in the bedroom.
The vibrators can be used on her breasts or nipples as a high-intensity sensation, teasingly over her wet (remember foreplay first!) lips or on her clit directly. Women prefer slow, soft movements—so make sure every motion is gentle.
Use the vibrator to tease her during foreplay; trail the toy along her bikini line taking the time to trace her pubic bone too. As you kiss her stomach or chest, move the toy toward her slit and upwards over her lips.
The idea here is to tease her with vibrations, without touching her clit directly. When she’s arching her back in anticipation, enter her quickly (think hard and fast) using the bullet directly over her clitoris.
Anal Beads or Plugs Sex Toys
Before you freak out at the thought (or jump for joy) it’s important to ask your partner about her willingness to try anal play – because NO ONE wants something shoved up their ass without permission.
The key to the successful anal play is making sure that she’s cleaned out her system (aka she’s gone to the bathroom) and lots of lube.
To start using anal play invest in a silicone-based lube and cover the sex toy generously. Using a large amount on your finger, gently tease her hole (you’re not putting the fingers in) along the edges.
Apply a firm pressure near the opening to relax the muscles in that area – moving slowly as you do. Take the toy and press the smallest area against the muscle until it enters. You may need to pull it out to reapply more lube until she is used to the sensation.
Make no mistake; these three sex toys will improve your sex life beyond your wildest dreams. Take it from the pro.